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FEATURES • 14 October 2024 • 13:11PM

Signs Your Child Should See a Therapist: A Journey Through a Day in Their Life

Morning: The Silent Struggle

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It's 7:00 AM, and the alarm blares through the room. Your child buries their head under the pillow, dreading the day ahead. The usual morning routine feels like an uphill battle—getting dressed, brushing teeth, packing their bag—each task weighs on them like a ton of bricks.

Sign #1: Persistent Avoidance or Dread of Daily Activities

If your child consistently struggles to get out of bed, avoid school, or seems anxious about facing the day, it might be more than just a bad day. Chronic avoidance can be a sign of underlying anxiety or depression.

Midday: The Classroom Crumble

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At school, your child sits in class, but their mind is elsewhere. They used to raise their hand enthusiastically, but now they avoid eye contact, hoping not to be called on. Their grades are slipping, and the teacher has noticed a change in their participation and focus.

Sign #2: Decline in Academic Performance

A sudden drop in grades or a noticeable lack of interest in schoolwork can indicate that your child is struggling emotionally. This can be a sign of stress, anxiety, or even a learning disorder that needs attention.

Afternoon: The Social Shift

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Lunchtime comes, and instead of joining their friends, your child sits alone or stays in the classroom. They’ve become increasingly isolated, withdrawing from social interactions that once brought them joy. When you ask about their friends, they shrug or say they don’t have any anymore.

Sign #3: Social Withdrawal

If your child is pulling away from friends, avoiding social situations, or seems lonely, it could be a sign of depression, social anxiety, or other emotional challenges. Social connections are vital for their development, and a therapist can help them navigate these changes.

Evening: The Emotional Outburst

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The day winds down, but the tension builds up. A small request like finishing homework or cleaning up leads to a major meltdown. Your child’s emotions seem to be all over the place—one moment they’re fine, the next, they’re overwhelmed by anger, sadness, or frustration.

Sign #4: Intense Emotional Reactions

Frequent and intense emotional outbursts that seem disproportionate to the situation might signal that your child is struggling to manage their emotions. A therapist can help them develop healthy coping mechanisms.

Night: The Quiet Desperation

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The lights are off, and the house is quiet, but your child is wide awake. They lie in bed, staring at the ceiling, unable to sleep. They’ve started having nightmares, or they can’t seem to turn off their racing thoughts. The peaceful rest they need just won’t come.

Sign #5: Changes in Sleep Patterns

Difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or frequent nightmares can be indicators of anxiety, stress, or trauma. A consistent change in sleep patterns is a signal that your child might benefit from talking to a professional.

Reflection: The Parent’s Perspective

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As you move through your day, observing these changes in your child, you might feel a mix of concern, confusion, and helplessness. It’s important to remember that seeking help isn’t a sign of failure but a step toward your child’s well-being. Therapy can provide your child with the tools they need to understand and manage their emotions, leading to a happier, healthier life.

If any of these signs resonate with you, consider reaching out to a therapist who specializes in child and adolescent mental health. Early intervention can make a world of difference, helping your child navigate their challenges and find their way back to a place of peace and stability. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey—support is available for both you and your child.

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